Well, I’ve been starring at this screen for while thinking I want to write something, but not being able to figure out what.
After our big to-do Sunday I pretty much crashed out. Then I got yelled at for not paying enough attention to Lauren. I hate getting yelled at for this. So, from that point on we’ve been fighting.
This built up to me being pretty pissed yesterday and I just didn’t talk to her when I got home. I figured maybe she would get the point that I was pissed. And I figured if I didn’t say anything I couldn’t get myself into any more trouble.
You can imagine how well this went over (especially considering it was me who suddenly went silent), so we of course started a fight around bed-time. I hate that…I wish all fighting could be done by sleep-time, or at least postponed. I can’t stand coming to my boring job when I’m exhausted.
When you get married you ought to get a handbook on fighting. That would make life easier. Like if you say “I just don’t want to be around you anymore” (we both do this) and you leave, shouldn’t there be a rule somewhere to tell you that you have to also state approximately how long you are going to be gone, where you are going, and that your cell phone is on in the event of something bad happening. We made that rule. I think it works pretty well. Now we just need a rule about how often you can walk out on a fight when your pissed before it gets ridiculous. Also, there should be some qualifier that says it is OK to carry an argument past bed-time on a work night, otherwise it has to be postponed. In general I think the advice that we got to not go to bed angry was stupid. I swear there would be nights where I didn’t sleep. If you are someone
Anyway, I’ll probably be in shit just for writing about this. But I really felt like writing something, and this isn’t all that personal, so I might be OK. Hope all you people are having a great week.